I hate when…

You give people advice and you warn them about things and they say that they understand and that they are gonna change but turns out they are just another disappointment.  People need to learn to pull themselves together before they collapse and become an emotional wreck.  I am told that I give out good advice and when people actually use it, some things do get better.  Now why doesn’t that one friend not take my advice?  Does he not want to get better?  I don’t understand.  Drugs and alcohol can’t cure it.  Yeah sure, drink up to a bad day with your friends and get over it, but not to use that all the time as an escape.  Not sure what else to do with him except make sure he’s trying not to kill himself.